Is It Stress or Burnout? 7 Signs You Should Know

Is It Stress or Burnout?  7 Signs You Should Know

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"Simplicity means taking charge of a life that is too busy, too stressed, and too fragmented...focusing on the essentials - whatever those may be for each of our unique lives" - Duane Elgin


One third of Americans live with extreme stress, naming money and work as the leading cause.  Stress is a significant reason for problems with family and friends.  Eight percent connect stress to divorce or separation.  These are the statistics reported by the American Psychological Association.

Anyone can suffer from stress or burnout.  From the frazzled office worker putting in late hours, to the frenetic homemaker struggling with children or caregiving, to the Type A personality with control issues.

Stress is About Too Much Pressure and Responsibility

You are expected to be too many things to too many people.  Symptoms include feeling irritable, fatigued, frustrated, overwhelmed.  Physically your body aches and your blood pressure is up.  Despite this, you still feel optimistic that if you can just get things under control everything will work out.

The good news is stress is easier to handle at this stage - before it becomes chronic.

Burnout is About Having Too Little Left to Give

It is the more intense form of stress.  Symptoms include feeling empty, helpless, hopeless.  Loss of motivation and interest.  Feeling nothing you do is appreciated or makes a difference.  Problems seem overwhelming and you are unable to meet the demands. 

Because burnout is gradual, you may not realize you are past the breaking point until it is too late.
In the early stages stress reduction strategies may be enough.  Though it will take a good amount of time and effort.  If symptoms persist or become worse, however, it is best to see a doctor.

7 Signs of Stress                                 7 Signs of Burnout

Over engagement (doing too much)    Disengagement (not worth it)
Over reactive (hypersensitive)             Emotions blunted (past caring)
Urgency and hyperactivity                   Helplessness and hopelessness
Loss of energy                                     Loss of motivation, ideas, hope
Anxiety disorders                                 Detachment and depression
Primary damage is physical                  Primary damage is emotional
May kill you prematurely                      Life seems not worth living

Source: Stress and burnout ministry

What You Can Do for Relief

• At work:  speak with your boss to clarify job description, renegotiate new job duties.  Give yourself a break and take time off when needed.
• At home:  set boundaries, learn to say no and get help where needed.  Carve out daily "me time" to relax.
• For the high achieving Type A personality:  take a break from the laptop, email, Blackberry.  Find a fun project, hobby or other non-work related activity to get away from responsibilities.

Begin to understand that stress management and relaxation are a vital part of your physical and emotional fitness.  Learn breathing routines, affirmations, meditation, visualization and progressive relaxation to find what works for your lifestyle.  Take a "time out", eat healthy, exercise and get plenty of rest.  Finally, reassess your goals, simplify your life and rediscover what what makes you happy.

Spell Stressed Backwards and You Get Desserts: How to Manage Stress to Make Life Sweeter

"Adopting the Right Attitude Can Convert a Negative Stress Into a Positive One" - Hans Selye April is Stress Awareness Month Let's face it. We are all going to face some stress in our lives. Although not all stress is bad. A new home, job promotion, new baby, wedding plans are all examples of good stress. On the other hand tight finances and job losses are all too common sources of stress in these economic times. These negative events take a mental and physical toll on us. This can eventually impact our immune system and lead to long-term health problems. How Do You Cope With Stress So how do you cope when faced with stressful situations? How do you get through the day? Do things build until you find yourself with a short fuse, easily irritated, taking your anger out on those around you? Or are you one who becomes overwhelmed, emotionally withdrawn, depressed and end up doing nothing? In either scenario you probably know you need better coping skills. A skill that is both powerful and effective is a technique used in NLP called "anchoring". The premise of this procedure is that you can change the way you feel immediately - sad to happy, lethargic to motivated for example - by using anchors. The process is really quite simple. And it works. Here's how to do it. Stop Negative Self Talk The next time you are feeling down change the way you physically carry yourself. Hold your head up, stand tall, breathe deeply and walk with confidence. Sounds too simple, right? But notice the reaction you get when interacting with others. Your outward appearance will project confidence no matter how you may feel inside. Next change your negative self talk - the "loser" talk - with one word. STOP! See the word mentally or speak it out loud. This will immediately interrupt that downward spiral and pave the way for anchoring. NLP Anchoring Start by remembering a time you felt good about yourself. Immerse yourself in that memory. What were you doing, wearing, with whom, saying what. At the height of that memory, when you are feeling awesome, do something unique to anchor that mood. Clench your fists, tug your ear, hum a special tune. Pick a gesture that works for you. Anchor several feel-good memories, dreams, or fantasies in the exact same way. And you are done. Now every time you use your anchor - for example, let's say tug your ear - you will automatically trigger all the good feelings you have linked to it. Use this NLP technique every time you are feeling tense, anxious, stressed. Fire off that anchor and immediately be in a better place. You will feel more resourceful in this state of mind. Better able to explore new avenues for resolving or at least tackling the source of your stress. Look at it this way, when you spell stressed backwards you get desserts. Stress, when managed well, makes life sweeter.